flippyspoon:

salkryn:

It’s called the foot-in-the-door method. First, you propose something that is slightly outside of allowable norms: denying gay people wedding cakes on grounds of “religious freedom”. Then, you slowly ramp up how extreme your demands are, coercing the other side to giving a tiny bit of ground each time, until you’ve shifted the entire fucking playing field. Conservatives are also very fond of the door-to-face method, which is demanding something completely outlandish that you know will be refused, and then asking for something less ridiculous by way of compromise, again resulting in a gradual shift in norms until views that were once considered moderate or reasonable become unthinkably liberal by destroying people’s sense of standards. The combination of these methods is called the “foot-in-the-face” method, which sums up where this whole thing is headed quite nicely.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Door-in-the-face_technique

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Foot-in-the-door_technique

He lost his seat though! Not that those attitudes go out with Rohrabacher. But at least this particular asshole lost his seat.

peachieri:

Why I love “Choose Joy” over any other TAZ quote

Yall ever get that “why not just choose to be happy?!” Rhetoric as a teenager? That, make your own happiness shit? It always infuriated me.

The scene with Merle and John started like that. I visibly groaned. But it was later that really got me.

“I’ve found joy, honest to god, getting to know you. I’ve found joy playing chess with you. I haven’t enjoyed you know, getting my ass killed, but I find joy in whatever I do.”

Merle isn’t talking about choosing joy. It’s about finding it. It’s never about making the saddest moments happy just by willing it so, it’s about taking the good and the bad and finding moments of joy in between them. Embracing what is good and letting the bad highlight the joy. Merle isn’t happy getting killed, but he’s happy getting to know a friend. There’s joy in that, not because of or somehow through that.

“Because, at the end of the day, that’s all you got. It’s looking back at the joy you had, and the joy you found, and the joy you gave other people.”

This. This. This is why I love Merle. And to a greater extent, Clint. He’s not just “choosing joy” by changing his mood. He’s making an active choice to remember the good parts.

And that’s what makes this whole scene so special.